Whoever you decide to trust, make sure they’re inspiring you to develop trust in your own intelligence, your own values, your own convictions, and your own bliss.
Of what use is an authority figure if they refuse to inform you that you are authorized to be the author of your own narrative?
Good leadership ought to lead you to a deeper awareness of your permission and power to be the main leader in your own life.
Self-knowledge, self-respect, self-management, self-determinism: these are the goals. All external forms of guidance are just ways of helping you get there.
Before you follow anyone’s lead, make sure you’re the destination.